The reality is that most fights we have with our partner we get over. “Of course, when it’s happening it seems like the worst thing in the world, but DO NOT post this online,” Scarlett says. “Not only are you letting every single person you’ve ever connected with know the intimate details of your relationship, you are causing them to unconsciously form a negative image of your partner in their minds, even if they haven’t met them.” For the sake of your relationship and partner’s privacy, do not do this, she adds.