If you grew up with siblings, you heard this lie dozens of times. Whenever your siblings got something that you didn’t and you griped about it, your parents probably just repeated: “Everything evens out in the end.” But life isn’t always as fair as parents make it out to be. And chances are, one sibling is going to end up with the short end of the stick. In life, though, it can be useful to conduct yourself as if things were fair — you know, to be a good person and all that. Speaking of being a good person… Here are 50 little things you can do to be a better parent and person overall.

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