16 things birth order reveals about you and your siblings from 16 Things Birth Order Reveals About You and Your Siblings
16 Things Birth Order Reveals About You and Your Siblings
16 things birth order reveals about you and your siblings
Have you ever gathered together as an adult with your brothers and sisters at the holidays or family reunions and observed how they talk and interact with each other and with you? Do you ever ask yourself: “How are you so different from me?”
You might find that your oldest sibling is always trying to tell you how to run your affairs or wonder why your middle sister has so much accumulated wealth while you are scraping by. Some of your questions could be answered by simply looking at the family birth order and where each family member falls in line.
The first-born child
First-time parents try to do everything perfect for their first-born child. As a result the child could grow up reflecting this attention in her characteristics and personality. She could be a perfectionist and high achiever. And, according to a study by Careerbuilder.com, first-borns are more likely to be over-represented at Harvard and Yale more likely to seek higher education.
Pioneering psychologist Alfred Adler found that first-borns were more likely to be burdened by the responsibilities of being the oldest and the disappointment of being “dethroned” by their siblings. According to Adler, this made them more neurotic and could even lead them to substance abuse.
3,000 more hours
On average, parents spend 3,000 more quality hours with first children between the ages of 4 and 13 than with the next sibling, according to a study from Brigham Young University.
Top careers for first-borns
Careers in medicine, engineering and law, according to the Careerbuilder study.
The middle child
The parents of middle children are a little more relaxed this time around. This might explain why they have a more easy going and independent attitude than their older siblings.
The children in the middle are often the most level-headed in the family. According to Careerbuilder, middle children oftentake on the role of mediator and peacemaker. As such, other brothers and sisters will come to them to negotiate or settle disputes.
Top careers for the middle child
Careers in education, law enforcement, fire-fighting, construction, personal care, according to the Careerbuilder study.
The last born
The youngest or the baby of the family tends to be the most self-centered. Parents sometimes seem to be almost too relaxed with the last born, leaving them with the least amount of responsibility and the most freedom.
Always being called ‘cute’
Being the cute, special one growing up, they will always find ways of attention-seeking later in life. This could take the form of being the life of the party, the most outgoing in a crowd and the most fun-loving in the room. The youngest child tends to be the most creative and can be very charming - even manipulative.
The only child
Only children spend more time around their parents and other adults. The traits they pick up tend to make them more mature, conscientious and responsible for their age. Professionally, as they get older, they mature into diligent, confident and highly competent employees. They are highly responsible and perfectionists.