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Holding onto grudges or bitter feelings toward a rival, enemy or former friend is actually bad for your health. Forgiveness can lead to stronger relationships, improved mental health and a stronger immune system and reduce pain, blood pressure and cholesterol levels. Forgiveness doesn't necessarily mean reconciling with the person who has hurt you — which isn't always helpful or possible — but rather is a process of internally working through what happened.